When a relationship turns into a verbal battle every day and neither side is listening to the other anymore, then the relationship has come to a stand off. There may be a very good reason why shes mad at him and the same for him being mad at her but often the surface anger is just cloaking a deeper issue of neither side wanting the other to change them. Often this change is what is needed and they know it but it’s like when you decide to face your fears, you want to do it but when the moment of truth comes it is hard, to the point where you start to get mad when your being forced to do it, when you can’t run away and hide from it. Learning how to get your ex back is about learning about yourself and what it is your so offended by when your with her, or him.